Monday, January 23, 2012

Laugh... It’s Good For What Ails You

Many years ago, Norman Cousins was diagnosed as “terminally ill.” He was given six months to live. His chance for recovery was one in 500.

He could see the worry, depression and anger in his life contributed to, and perhaps helped cause, his disease. He wondered, “If illness can be caused by negativity, can wellness be created by positivity?”

He decided to make an experiment of himself. Laughter was one of the most positive activities he knew. He rented all the funny movies he could find—Buster Keaton, Charlie Chaplin, W.C. Fields, and the Marx Brothers. (This was before VCRs, so he had to rent the actual films.) He read funny stories. He asked his friends to call him whenever they said, heard, or did something funny.

His pain was so great he could not sleep. Laughing for 10 solid minutes, he found, relieved the pain for several hours so he could sleep. He fully recovered from his illness and lived another 20 happy, healthy and productive years. His journey is detailed in his book, Anatomy of an Illness.

Some people think laughter is a waste of time. It is a luxury, they say, a frivolity, something to indulge in only every so often. Nothing could be further from the truth. Laughter is essential to our equilibrium, to our well-being, to our aliveness. If we’re not well, laughter helps us get well; if we are well, laughter helps us stay that way.

Since Cousins’ ground-breaking subjective work, scientific studies have shown that laughter has a curative effect on the body, the mind and the emotions.

So, if you like laughter, consider it sound medical advice to indulge in it as often as you can. If you don’t like laughter, then take your medicine—laugh anyway. Use whatever makes you laugh—movies, sitcoms, Monty Python, records, books, New Yorker cartoons, jokes, friends.

Give yourself permission to laugh—long and loud and out loud—whenever anything strikes you as funny. The people around you may think you're strange, but sooner or later they’ll join in even if they don’t know what you’re laughing about.

Some diseases may be contagious, but none is as contagious as the cure . . . laughter.

- Peter McWilliams, Chicken Soup for the Surviving Soul

A cheerful heart is good medicine,
but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
- Proverbs 17:22, NIV

youversion.com/bible/niv/prov/17/22


Monday, November 28, 2011

Grief Recovery Workshop is back!

Grief Recovery Workshop at Canton First Friends Church
Tuesdays at 7pm - January 17 - March 6, 2012
$25 registration fee ($30 after Jan. 10th)
330/966-2800
http://firstfriends.org/ministries/support-and-recovery/grief-recovery


My other workshops:

Successful Relationships Workshop
at The Chapel (Akron Campus)
Fridays at 7pm - January 13 - March 2, 2012
In the Auditorium at the Akron Campus
$35 registration fee ($40 after Jan. 4th)
330/315-5517
the-chapel.org/adults/singles

Divorce Recovery Workshop at Dueber Church (Canton)
Mondays at 7pm - March 5 - April 23, 2012
registration fee, tba
330/456-8357
dueber.org

The Life You've Always Wanted at NewPointe-Canton
Spiritual Disciplines small group for single adults
meeting at NewPointe Community Church (Canton Campus)
Thursdays at 6:30pm - February 16 - April 19
330/602-5600
newpointe.org

I Will Come to Your Singles Event!
As you can see, I am guest speaking at various churches.
If your church might be interested in hosting a workshop, visit here:
singlespastor5.blogspot.com
Eight different 8-week workshops for single adults (or weekend conferences) to choose from. Let's talk!

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

The Power to Choose

We can nurse wounds of having been cheated in life, or we can be grateful and joyful, even though there seems to be little reason for it. It is this power to choose that adds dignity to our humanity. - Gerald Sittser