Saturday, February 23, 2008

Dreams

Blessed are those whose dreams are shaped
by their hopes…
not by
their hurts!
- Robert H. Schuller

I Believe

I believe in the sun,
even when it does not shine.

I believe in love,
even when it is not shown.

I believe in God,
even when He is silent.
- This verse was scratched into a basement wall
by the one of the victims of the Holocaust

Promises

So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Isaiah 41:10

He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
Psalm 147:3

Prayer for Serenity

God, grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can,
and the wisdom to know the difference.

Mastering the Loss

The loss is mastered not by forgetting the past or holding onto it, but by abstracting from it the essential meaning of the person and recreating it to fit a whole new life which must go on without the loved one.

- Bertha Simos

Why Participate in a Grief Group?

“I believe the greatest gift I can conceive of having from anyone is to be seen by them, to be understood and touched by them.

The greatest gift I can give is to see, to hear, to understand, and to touch another [griever].
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When this is done I feel a contact has been made.”
-Virginia Satir

The Prayer of Betty Stam

Lord,

I give up my own purposes and plans,
all my own desires, hopes and ambitions,
and I accept Thy will for my life.

I give myself, my life, my all,
utterly to Thee, to be Thine forever.

I hand over to Thy keeping all my friendships. All the people whom I love are to take second place in my heart.

Fill me and seal me with Thy Holy Spirit.
Work out Thy whole will in my life, at any cost, now and forever. To me to live is Christ.

Amen!
- The Prayer of Betty Stam
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Betty Stam dedicated her life to Christ with this prayer in 1925. Betty and her husband John calmly and bravely laid down their lives for Christ nine years later, martyred by the Chinese communists.